Tribute to Patrick Muhumuza Kateihwaho

I got to know Patrick Kateihwaho over 40 years ago. As a child, I lived on Owen Road Mulago, while Patrick grew up in Kololo, both suburbs of Kampala City. I vividly recall his parents driving him to school in a white Volvo, while I walked to Buganda Road Primary School unless my dad dropped us off in his official Ministry of Health Renault Roho. Together with Dr. Peter Eyoku, Keith Kalyegira, or Marvin Baryaruha, we would walk home. Despite his lifestyle, Patrick easily gelled with everyone and maintained a stylish yet grounded demeanor. He was easily the talk of girls – both at Buganda Road Primary School and SMACK, like that handsome kid.

Like me, Patrick joined Buganda Road Primary School in 1976. At Buganda Road, he was recognized as one of the brightest students by all his peers. Classes were designated as A, B, and C, with the best students in the A classes. In P.7, the designations for P.7 changed to P, K, and J. Patrick was in the A classes, balancing academics and sports.

In 1983, Patrick joined St. Mary’s College Kisubi (SMACK) from Buganda Road Primary School (BRPS). I was one of 30 from the same primary school who, along with Patrick, made it to SMACK. That year, BRPS ranked number one in the Primary Leaving Examinations. My P7 cohort produced the country’s top two pupils then, now Engineers Paul Kabaale, and Eng. Andrew Gidoi, respectively. Paul and Andrew attended Kings College Budo, unlike us.

In secondary school, the boys eagerly anticipated their mother’s visits because of “grub” also known as the food and snacks students got from home to supplement school meals. Some of the alliances Patrick forged in school likely started with free food. In those days, Patrick’s famous “grub” suitcase rivaled the variety only found in a supermarket.

Patrick did like an argument even way back. As David Bikaako put it, Patrick was known for his passionate discussions on literally everything – from the advancing NRA forces and their tactics to constellations and galaxies. It was fascinating to witness his passionate de him, even if he stood alone in his perspective. This demonstrated his courage and conviction. At St. Mary’s College Kisubi (SMACK), Patrick was elected as the House Prefect for Mugwanya House, a testament to his leadership skills.

We were born into civil wars and grew up amid tumultuous history, which left visible and invisible scars that caused us all to respond differently to the reality in which we found ourselves.
This likely influenced Patrick’s approach to life. He despised corruption and later exposed scams in power distribution entity, Umeme. Some argue, he singlehandedly brought attention to the Umeme scam among the public.

Despite disagreements, we, his schoolmates, remained close like brothers and gave ourselves the nickname “Happy Men.” The Happy Men were known for their toughness, resilience, ambition, and unity. They balanced fun with hard work, supporting each other from high school through university and into the school of life. At A-level, Patrick Kateihwaho and six others, including Keith Kalyegira, Bob Musoke, Roy Kayizzi, Conrad Mitala, and Nollet Bitarabeho, formed a dance group called “Bad Boys”. It had nothing to do with their character, but was just fun, in contrast to the latter-day Bad Boys of the Hip-Hop era.

In 1989, Patrick graduated from high school and enrolled at Makerere University to pursue a Bachelor’s Degree in Commerce. A prominent member of Livingstone Hall, I have shared rooms with David Chandi Jamwa (former NSSF Managing Director), and Marvin Baryaruha (former UNRA Legal Boss). Marvin was in the same P.7 cohort as Patrick and later joined PK in SMACK for A-Level.

After Patrick completed his studies, as far as we know, he never got into salaried employment. I have shared intriguing stories from his aviation background. The diverse group of people who are his friends come from all walks of life and are indeed a testament to his friendliness.

Dr. Ddembe’s last conversation with Patrick was emblematic of our enduring relationship. The exchange was intense and contradictory, lasting several hours. Therein, Patrick expressed his dislike for Andrew’s views of him yet affirmed their friendship and trust. That was Patrick—sometimes infuriating yet warm-hearted, never holding grudges for long. True to his nature, Patrick contacted Drew the next day.

At one point, we wanted to create a sub-group on WhatsApp, for electricity sector enthusiasts. Our forums were always lively with Patrick engaging in deep conversations about the energy sector, aviation, global politics, and recent issues in the Israel-Palestinian conflict. Sometimes he would spar at length with colleagues such as Sam Ayo, George Ochora, Robert Tebandeke, and Dr Andrew Ddembe. If we were not talking or rather arguing about UMEME’s IPO and related topics, we spoke about our long history.

After one of such interactions, Patrick opted out of the forum due to some tough talks. I engaged him on the side agreeing that there are moments in life when one needed to step back, take a breath, and reflect on his actions. As the administrator of the Happy Men group, I set and managed expectations. Patrick later opted in again, delivering more of his high level, aka “Duc in Altum” inspired discourse. He often reminded us about the St Mary’s Kisubi motto – Duc in Altum, which, is Latin for “put out into the deep,” emphasizing the importance of deeper reflection on issues.

His sudden passing has not only hit us hard, but it is a reminder of the fleeting nature of life. We all weave our stories, leaving patterns in the fabric of time, but ultimately, we are whispers in the wind, returning to earth from when we came.
Patrick’s passing is a grim reminder of the need to check on each other and not assume all is well even when someone is a regular contributor to a WhatsApp group – this is the essence of sustaining meaningful relationships.

On the eve of his passing, Patrick unexpectedly appeared in our WhatsApp forum –like everything was normal. His final post on our class forum was at 4:47 pm, with the message, “Meanwhile Fresh sanctions from the USA on Uganda loading next week.” My last reply to him, following this message was at exactly 5:15 pm. On Friday, May 4, 2024, I received the news of his passing at 2:39 pm. Unbelievable, yet true. I tried to be strong, but on Saturday 5th May, 2024, I reflected on our life together and thought about Patrick Kateihwaho. I sent a message to Brother Joseph Tinkasimiire our former Headmaster at St. Mary’s College Kisubi, and informed him about the passing of Patrick. He was saddened by the loss. Bro. Tinka, as we fondly referred to him, wrote back expressing sadness over the passing of many in our cohort, starting with our Buganda Road Primary School and SMACK OB Joseph Ochwo. At that point, I broke down and cried myself to sleep. I opened the floodgates and cried for Patrick.

To his children, siblings (Robert, Patricia, Stephen, and Marvin), friends, and parents; From us the ‘SMACK’ 1983–89, ‘Happy Men’, we express our deepest condolences for the untimely loss of a son, a brother, and a parent in his prime. This is a pain beyond measure. Our dear friend Patrick Kateihwaho has joined the list of departed in my SMACK cohort, including; Thomas Moore Kiiza Kula, Alex Psomgen, Prof. Stephen Lawoko, Robert Kakembo, Joseph Ochwo, Paul Palia Kiapi, Andrew Kaddu, Dr. Denis Aurrah Akello, all close friends of Patrick. Patrick will be buried in Mwisi, Kabale.

Like Duncan Abigaba observed on the micro-blogging site The whole country came together to celebrate him. What a legend! We will miss his brilliance and humor every day. Go well, Commander.” Patrick would be proud of the love.
Farewell Patrick Muhumuza Kateihwaho, the epitome of a ‘happy man’. May you find mercy before the throne of grace! May you rest in eternal peace!

Authored by Patrick Oyulu, a Public Health Specialist